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Hi, uh. I tend to be neutral to pro in the ~shipscourse~ but there is one ship that I am very aggressively against because it involves me and someone who harmed me in my source (I’m a fictive with memories). I will complain about and insult the ship in private with friends but I have never posted anything outwardly hateful about it to anyone who does ship it. Still, I cannot help but feel negatively toward those who do ship this pairing and think badly of them because of it. I really hope this doesn’t make me a hypocrite.

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I don’t think that makes you a hypocrite, anon.

People, all people, are allowed to have ships they don’t like. You’re allowed to complain about it an insult it in private.

As long as you’re not being outwardly hostile to the people who ship it, you’re not doing anything wrong.

We’re in the same boat as you are. There are people who have hurt us in our kin lives that we just can’t forgive or accept. We don’t like to see art or fic of them. It makes us a little ill.

Remember, its not what you think about people that matters, its about your actions.

All the judgemental and nasty thoughts in the world won’t hurt a person until you actually directly act on them.

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Exonostalgia:

Exonostalgia: The opposite of exotrauma. Events and experience that were experienced outside of this objective reality that give you a nostalgic or fond feeling.

People you knew, places you’ve been, and events you experienced, ect, that impacted you positively and give you a warm feeling to remember and think about.

I have been meaning to share this term for a little while, which I have been using personally. I hope it will be useful to others!

For historical purposes: exonostalgia was coined on 1/17/2023 by Jasmine of Sinister System and is meant as a term to be usable by all fictionkin, otherkin, plurals of all origin types and anyone else who finds it useful to describe their experiences.

–🎀💖

you’re human and you are one SINGULAR human.

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Oh lol we haven’t gotten a troll like this in ages! 🤣

We can play too!

Stop deluding yourself that there’s just one person in your body!

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Fucking lame ass troll.

Get some new material. We’ve been getting this shit since 2006. We’re you even born then?

Boo!!! 🍅🍅🍅

I jusssst heard of the term mirealtive! It’s on pluralpedia! It’sss where you’re from a different reality/dimension and your “sssource” in this reality is jussst a thing that mirrors your experience. – 🍏 anon

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Oh cool, interesting new word for it. The terms souldbond, walk-in, multiverse traveller etc have been used in the past.

Anyway that’s what we all are. We ain’t from ‘round these parts 😉

Isss it weird that I write proship fanfiction of my ssssource to cope with traumatic memoriessss of that source? – 🍏 anon

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I’d say that’s a common experience and activity for people who experience being from a fictional source. For sure, we do it too!

That said, I’m gonna be nit-picky. 😉

It’s weird to write fanfiction.

It’s weird to be a fictive or fictionkin.

And that’s totally cool.

Your blog has made me sit and wonder if maybe the odd connections I’ve felt to specific characters were really just the Autism or maybe if they were some kind of other connection. I ache for them. I ache to be near them, to touch them, to see and feel and hear them as they are, beautiful and ugly and kind and cruel. Some I see myself in; others I see like old, ancient friends from times past. I’m also learning to engage with potential headmates. I’ve heard things, sometimes, when I lay down to sleep. Nothing big, but…it’s something, right? And there’s the time, a few months ago, when I heard someone say “Psst – I’m still here”. I got so excited about that…I should have been scared, but I kept hoping I’d hear her again.I never did, though…that’s depressing.
– 🍉💌

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It sounds like you’re on a journey of self discovery, and we are here for you!

Here are some resources that might help you sort things out.

our post from the other day about contacting headmates.

fictionkin.org: a resource for helping people understand fictionkin

from-fiction: tumblr related to fictionkin, fictives and general fictional alterhumanity

soulblonder: a sadly pretty dead blog dedicated to soulbonding

Mythics and fictives shaking hands. I’m not even human-SHAPED in the headspace. My legs curve at all the wrong angles in the front. My ears are too low on my head. My eyes are too human, my pupils are too round. Where have my tails gone? What about my pretty clothes? Why is there pale skin where there should be calico fur?

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World’s saddest handshake, pal. 🤝 We’re all existing here in bodies that don’t fit and it sucks.

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Existing as a fictive means living every day with a curious kind of body horror.

The face in the mirror is not my face. The body I use is not my body. It is a stranger to me. The wrong size, shape, color, maybe even the wrong number of limbs. It is a stranger to me.

It lies to me. It says ‘you are not the self you know you are, you have never been that person. There is only the shell. The shell is the truth.’

Sometimes when I see the face in the mirror I believe it.

I will never see my face in the mirror again.

Maybe one day the face in the mirror won’t be a stranger.

I am afraid of that day.

have you ever met a fictive. try looking a child in the eyes and telling them “sorry honey, this person thinks itd be cute if your abusive father f*cked you!”

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antiproshipping:

blackheart-biohazards:

antiproshipping:

blackheart-biohazards:

cezaryinurbones:

princesstoxicbutterfly-deactiva:

???…. Anyway I’m going to ship what I want and draw what I want

I’m not doing anything wrong

Anon, who the hell is doing that? Because it sounds like you are pushing the boundary. It sounds like you are the one shoving something that will make this fictive uncomfortable onto them. Lacey isn’t doing that. She tags her posts. Her tags are the easiest to filter. But you on the otherhand, anon, are coming up to this fictive who is also implied to be a little, aka a child mentally, and telling them all this graphic stuff. That’s not on Lacey, anon, that’s not her fault. Anon, that is yours.

Speaking as a fictive and fictionkin, one again:

Creators are not responsible for how you, a fictive, relate to their creative work.

You, a fictive, do not have sole ownership over a character as a concept in fandom, or how that character is used in creative works.

this anon makes no sense.

Also anybody else die inside when antis use fictives in their excuses??

I did so much over it!!! It’s so dumb!

It’s why 😼🔪 used to advise kin and fictives to just not interact in the fandoms they’re from at all. Cause some people just can’t handle themselves!!

Ive had to read that anon over and over cause the second sentence makes no sense???

Hhhhh

I wish I could tell this to anon personally.

Speaking as a fictive, my abusive father sexually abused me in canon, and there are people in fandom who get off to porn of that.

And I will defend their right to do it!!

From far far away because it makes me feel sick to my stomach and I have all those tags blocked!!