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have you ever met a fictive. try looking a child in the eyes and telling them β€œsorry honey, this person thinks itd be cute if your abusive father f*cked you!”

antiproshipping:

blackheart-biohazards:

cezaryinurbones:

princesstoxicbutterfly-deactiva:

???…. Anyway I’m going to ship what I want and draw what I want

I’m not doing anything wrong

Anon, who the hell is doing that? Because it sounds like you are pushing the boundary. It sounds like you are the one shoving something that will make this fictive uncomfortable onto them. Lacey isn’t doing that. She tags her posts. Her tags are the easiest to filter. But you on the otherhand, anon, are coming up to this fictive who is also implied to be a little, aka a child mentally, and telling them all this graphic stuff. That’s not on Lacey, anon, that’s not her fault. Anon, that is yours.

Speaking as a fictive and fictionkin, one again:

Creators are not responsible for how you, a fictive, relate to their creative work.

You, a fictive, do not have sole ownership over a character as a concept in fandom, or how that character is used in creative works.

this anon makes no sense.

Also anybody else die inside when antis use fictives in their excuses??

I did so much over it!!! It’s so dumb!

It’s why 😼πŸ”ͺ used to advise kin and fictives to just not interact in the fandoms they’re from at all. Cause some people just can’t handle themselves!!

have you ever met a fictive. try looking a child in the eyes and telling them β€œsorry honey, this person thinks itd be cute if your abusive father f*cked you!”

cezaryinurbones:

princesstoxicbutterfly-deactiva:

???…. Anyway I’m going to ship what I want and draw what I want

I’m not doing anything wrong

Anon, who the hell is doing that? Because it sounds like you are pushing the boundary. It sounds like you are the one shoving something that will make this fictive uncomfortable onto them. Lacey isn’t doing that. She tags her posts. Her tags are the easiest to filter. But you on the otherhand, anon, are coming up to this fictive who is also implied to be a little, aka a child mentally, and telling them all this graphic stuff. That’s not on Lacey, anon, that’s not her fault. Anon, that is yours.

Speaking as a fictive and fictionkin, one again:

Creators are not responsible for how you, a fictive, relate to their creative work.

You, a fictive, do not have sole ownership over a character as a concept in fandom, or how that character is used in creative works.

From the fictionkin/system anon from earlier β€” thanks so much for telling us how things worked out in your system! Did you do any specific activities to try to figure things out when you were still in the process of determining what was what? Or did it just take time to determine who was a separate person and which pieces were just aspects? I’m not sure if this question makes sense but thank you for answering everything so far!

It took time, but there were a few exercises that we would try to do to kind of figure it out faster.

One was having the person stand in headspace and try to ‘shift’ into the person we were trying to figure out if they were the same.

Another was trying to have the two people we were evaluating try to have a conversation together, or to have them have a conversation with a third party at the same time (we used discord for this.)

Beyond that, it was just up to each of our intuition, and helping one another. Some were definitely more difficult and more emotionally charged than others.

Sorry this one took so long to answer; its been a busy few days! feel free to follow up!

blackheart-biohazards:

The disconnect between kin life gnosis and knowledge of the canonical text of a work is sometimes staggering.

I’m reeling from re-realizing that Oce/lot isn’t even *in* Peace Wal/ker.

He just shows up at the beginning of Phan/tom pain out of context as if he’s been there all along.

Canon are you okay? Are you drunk? Do you need an editor?

me: why is there no paz/ocelot art or fic? It’s not any more problematic than her and Kazuhira.

Me, finding out that Paz and Ocelot have never met on screen: oh that’s why.

The disconnect between kin life gnosis and knowledge of the canonical text of a work is sometimes staggering.

I’m reeling from re-realizing that Oce/lot isn’t even *in* Peace Wal/ker.

He just shows up at the beginning of Phan/tom pain out of context as if he’s been there all along.

Canon are you okay? Are you drunk? Do you need an editor?

One of the worst things about exotrauma, is that having a traumatic memory of an event can cause you to fixate on that moment in time and it’s consequences.

It can make you unable to remember the ways things got better after that and you healed from that moment.

Exotrauma can force you to ‘redo’ pain and struggle that you’ve already healed from, because you can’t remember anything but that hurt.

It an actively keep you from being able to remember things that aren’t trauma.