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thehellspawnhero:

flirtingxwithxphantoms:

blackheart-biohazards:

The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.

That’s exactly the thing I’ve been thinking like….

they call proshippers the ‘abuse apologists’

who REALLY is the apologist here? Antishippers freely watch as their own tear into others and excuse it with “Well their targets were PROSHIPPERS so they (proshippers) deserved it”

same with calling proshippers ‘rape apologists’

and yet they provide THAT kind of cover for actual rapists [Some who were excused purely because they were antishippers, thanks twitter!]

Antis, some advice:
Maybe stop chucking rocks through your windows just to hit the other glass house you THINK you see.

In the past five years alone, I have seen:

  • Five incidents where antis were caught either sharing CSEM in private or on public platforms like Twitter, both alone and en mass.
  • Two incidents where antis actively tried to convince people not to spread word that one of their own was a confirmed rapist, one of which even admitted it was because it made them look bad.
  • One incident where a particularly infamous and active anti went into someone’s DMs to prove that they had doxxed them, then threatened in extremely graphic detail how they knew that person’s rapist and intended to release their address to said rapist so they could attack them again.
  • At least ten incidents where adult antis were outed as rapists after having lengthy tirades about how people who draw “icky” fan art are disgusting and deserve either imprisonment or death.
  • One of the above incidents stands out since the rapist anti spent the majority of their confession post blaming their victim, insisting that they deserved and enjoyed it, and even believed themselves to be the real victim because they were deprived of a loving relationship with their victim that they believed they deserved.
  • At least fifteen incidents where adult antis turned out to be pedophiles themselves; hoarding and/or sharing CSEM, openly championing the idea that pedophilia is good and that the age of consent should be lowered or abolished, caught actively grooming minors (some of which were family members), and even having been convicted for child rape.

But yeah, somehow everyone who isn’t part of the cult whose members produce a new sex scandal every week is an abuse apologist.

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weaselle:

gwydionmisha:

recovering-catholic:

portraitoftheoddity:

respected-demon:

aphony-cree:

sonicrainbooms:

bloodyl1ps:

this post hasn’t left my mind since i’ve first saw it

people jest but this is literally how i worked out i was gaslit for like 15 years of my life

People who “want trauma” are recognizing, on some level, that they were traumatized but in a way that’s not “socially recognized” as trauma. What they really want is for people to see that they’ve been traumatized and be on their side

Hold up

I think it’s also important to talk about mental illness, and how the pain and trauma of being mentally ill as a kid is often diminished because of the lack of outside actors. If you spent your childhood being suicidally depressed because your wee little kiddo brain decided to be a chemical shitshow, it doesn’t matter how much mom and dad loved you, that kinda thing fucks you up. And having people only look at your external surroundings and argue that “nothing bad happened” ignores all the pain you went through internally. So wishing you could have something external you could point to in order to justify that pain and enduring stress – just so people could understand – makes sense. 

Posts that diagnose me, drag me, and rewire the synapses in my brain.

I’ve always felt that the reason kids who have been through trauma or most mental illnesses are attracted to darker themed media/books/etc..  It’s often the only place there is acknowledgment that things are not all right.  even if it’s just fictional, it’s validation.

this week on tumblr slaps me in the face with things i didn’t know i needed to talk to my therapist about

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benpaddon:

ivebeenonthissitetoolong:

thememedaddy:

Last year, I was talking with my mom about parenting and she said “well at least I never made you feel like I didn’t love you”

I proceeded to tell her about a time when I was a kid and she was yelling, screaming, and throwing things, and I said “I love you” in that small timid kid voice and she said

“well I don’t love you right now”

Our relationship was never the same after that and she didn’t even remember that it happened.

The axe never remembers, but the tree never forgets.

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reverseracism:

lesbiangender:

lesbiangender:

grednforgesgirl:

ogrish161:

-“mommy, the kids at school are mean to me!”

-“OH, WHAT, ARE U #TRIGGERED???, LIFE ISNT UR #SAFE SPACE LMAO”

Stay away from children for the rest of your lives please

The people who hate this are probably the ones traumatizing their children

this is a show for 3 – 6 year olds what is WRONG with these monsters???

Fun fact, sesame street was created to fill the gap in education for children whose families could not afford to send them to preschool. Sesame street taught basic math and phonics as well as interpersonal skills so that children below the poverty line weren’t starting elementary school behind their more privileged classmates.

Here sesame street is trying to fill a gap where supportive adults should be. Where there should be a teacher or a family member or a counselor to help, for whatever reason, there isn’t, so Sesame Street is stepping in.

This breed of person has always hated Sesame Street. They hated it for showing black and white children playing together. They hated it for giving children of color the head start that rich white families were paying for. They hated it for Bert and Ernie for showing two MEN who LIVED TOGETHER, for the married black nurse who lived on sesame street when it was first released, and for them explaining death. I feel like there was a pregnancy at some point in its early days and they would have REALLY hated that.

These days they don’t (usually) say “I’m not letting my kid watch anything with black kids in it” but they sure throw a tantrum in the youtube comments when Sesame Street DARES to show an autistic girl playing with non-autistic children and being treated like shes anyone else. They lose their shit when Sesame Street has to explain incarceration to 5 year olds. And the muppet in south africa with HIV? Hoo boy.

They hate everything Sesame Street stands for and tries to provide. They always have. We just have to ignore them and keep supporting the show. Or tell them to shut the fuck up and keep supporting the show. Either way Sesame Street will outlive them.

Sesame Street will outlive them.

have you ever met a fictive. try looking a child in the eyes and telling them “sorry honey, this person thinks itd be cute if your abusive father f*cked you!”

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antiproshipping:

blackheart-biohazards:

antiproshipping:

blackheart-biohazards:

cezaryinurbones:

princesstoxicbutterfly-deactiva:

???…. Anyway I’m going to ship what I want and draw what I want

I’m not doing anything wrong

Anon, who the hell is doing that? Because it sounds like you are pushing the boundary. It sounds like you are the one shoving something that will make this fictive uncomfortable onto them. Lacey isn’t doing that. She tags her posts. Her tags are the easiest to filter. But you on the otherhand, anon, are coming up to this fictive who is also implied to be a little, aka a child mentally, and telling them all this graphic stuff. That’s not on Lacey, anon, that’s not her fault. Anon, that is yours.

Speaking as a fictive and fictionkin, one again:

Creators are not responsible for how you, a fictive, relate to their creative work.

You, a fictive, do not have sole ownership over a character as a concept in fandom, or how that character is used in creative works.

this anon makes no sense.

Also anybody else die inside when antis use fictives in their excuses??

I did so much over it!!! It’s so dumb!

It’s why 😼🔪 used to advise kin and fictives to just not interact in the fandoms they’re from at all. Cause some people just can’t handle themselves!!

Ive had to read that anon over and over cause the second sentence makes no sense???

Hhhhh

I wish I could tell this to anon personally.

Speaking as a fictive, my abusive father sexually abused me in canon, and there are people in fandom who get off to porn of that.

And I will defend their right to do it!!

From far far away because it makes me feel sick to my stomach and I have all those tags blocked!!

Thank you so much for your shipcest post, one of my FOs is both my lover and my father because of mine emotionally abusing me and causing me severe abandonment issues.

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I wish we couldn’t basically say the same thing, anon. Sending you love and fond thoughts. We’re all in this together.

And if you don’t mind a silly meme: