antis are running rampant these days with the same old same old 🥱 reminder that they’re anonymous pussies who don’t deserve your time nor your energy.
- don’t respond to them with your heart in tact, they could’ve blocked u after sending their asks and kiki’ing about it in their discord servers.
- don’t give them a chance of knowing you’ve seen their asks, delete them immediately. don’t even post about receiving any.
- they don’t know who you are so do not give them a chance to by spilling anything to them.
- after deleting the asks, if you feel down, get off the app and distract urself w things that make u happy or create a vent piece, listen to music, pick up a random show that u wouldn’t watch, watch youtube videos, cook. anything.
don’t even waste your time with these antis. their heads are so far up eachother’s asses, they can’t smell nothing but their own shit. do you really want to give up your precious time and energy to that? 🤨
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hey! it’s me, things-antis-say :) i’m coming to you + the community through anon ask bc i got nuked in the middle of the night. i guess mass reporting my account finally worked, lmao!i was pretty upset for about five minutes. you know, all of that work i did, the blocklist and my sources, gone… but the receipts i posted are still out there, indisputable evidence, and i think that’s the most important thing i considered remaking, but i think this is some sort of divine intervention. i got a LOT of good news yesterday! i’m moving forward with my life :) i’ve got shit to do, places to be, a wedding to plan… i think limiting my screentime was probably a good idea anyway, lmao! so i want to thank the proship community for being so real. if any of y’all guessed my main, you can message me on it. if i like you, i’ll give the confirmation and maybe we can still be mutuals 👉👈 other than that, i just wanna say, it’s certainly been memorable! keep doing what you’re doing. the four months that my blog existed were so fun for me thanks for getting me to the 600 follower milestone before i got deleted lmao
@things-antis-say Rest in peace 📯📯📯 (I’m playing taps for your account)
We’re so sorry to hear that your account got nuked, partly because that means we’ve all lost access to the excellent library of antishipper harassment and hypocrisy that you maintained.
We’re glad to hear that there are good things in your life, and we wish you luck. Thank you for everything you did for the community. We’ll mis having you around!
PS: I think we deliberately refrained from following your main out of politeness; if you wanna be mutuals, please DM us!!
The two most important fandom skills are:
📌 Ignoring things you don’t like 😔
📌 having fun!!! 🥰
Art therapy is literally a thing that therapists tell you to do Why do anti’s think that therapists would tell you not to do art therapy?
Because their belief that their moral view is completely objectively correct means that they make absurd leaps of logic.
Here’s how an anti thinks.
1. “Nasty icky art is bad.”
2. Therapists would not tell someone to do something that is bad.
3. Therefore therapists would not tell you to make nasty icky art.
See?
I may write weird and gross fictional ships but at least I don’t bully and threaten strangers! 🥰
Sending love to everyone who has been bullied or threatened over the content of their writing or ships.
Kys
Oh gosh anon!!
That’s not how you spell kiss!!
Kissie kissie kissie I love you too tho!!! 💖💞💕🥰
Oh God, my family is not proship and they somehow don’t understand that it’s fiction. It’s difficult, so i keep most of my thoughts about fandoms to myself cause…well, people don’t make sense when they don’t understand that fictional characters…are fictional characters.They don’t exist. I literally will stop caring about the character for a few months, then go back to them, and guess what…they haven’t changed. There’s nothing new about them because they don’t fucking exist without someone creating their experiences, unlike real people who have something different going on each day.
Unfortunately, parents who mistakenly believe that thoughts and fiction equate to real world harm do exist, and they can hurt us.
I’m sorry you have such unsupportive parents, anon. We can relate.
It’s a double bind – damned if you tag damned if you don’t
It really can be the case.
Because if you tag, then when fancops decide they want to harass somebody for the contents of that tag, they know right where to find you.
But if you don’t tag, no one can filter it and people will come upon it by accident.
Hi, uh. I tend to be neutral to pro in the ~shipscourse~ but there is one ship that I am very aggressively against because it involves me and someone who harmed me in my source (I’m a fictive with memories). I will complain about and insult the ship in private with friends but I have never posted anything outwardly hateful about it to anyone who does ship it. Still, I cannot help but feel negatively toward those who do ship this pairing and think badly of them because of it. I really hope this doesn’t make me a hypocrite.
I don’t think that makes you a hypocrite, anon.
People, all people, are allowed to have ships they don’t like. You’re allowed to complain about it an insult it in private.
As long as you’re not being outwardly hostile to the people who ship it, you’re not doing anything wrong.
We’re in the same boat as you are. There are people who have hurt us in our kin lives that we just can’t forgive or accept. We don’t like to see art or fic of them. It makes us a little ill.
Remember, its not what you think about people that matters, its about your actions.
All the judgemental and nasty thoughts in the world won’t hurt a person until you actually directly act on them.
Many antis forget that not every proshipper is in their 20s, that many are in fact older and parents themselves, and those of us who are (which I am) don’t care what fiction our kids like, if they are enjoying themselves and not hurting anyone (including themselves) then we are perfectly content and happy for them.
The problem again and again comes back to fancops not understanding, and not wanting to understand, that people have experiences that are different from their own.
They want everyone to be “normal”, as in “like them.”