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If you don’t mind me asking, but what does Proship mean? I’ve never heard it before so I’m curious.

Proship is a fandom term that means you don’t believe in harassing people who write fiction or create artwork that you don’t agree with.

Basically “ship and let ship” and “don’t like, don’t read.”

While this seems obvious to most people, and you wouldn’t think there needed to be a term for it, unfortunately it’’s necessary to have, because people who consider themselves “antiship” or “antis” have a tendency to go around sending violent, hateful, and suicide baiting messages to people online that they feel write immoral fanfiction.

crunchybutter:

People who are antiship do more harm to abuse victims then proshiper ever will. And that’s saying something because I don’t even like prohipers or there content. But at least they don’t go out of there way to harasses abuse victims, victim blame children, imply they consented to there abuse, and invalidate how life destroying said abuse is by saying fiction is just as harmful

You guy don’t care about victims that aren’t yourself

Diabolik lovers has some of the most secretly shitty antis, at least they did years ago when I was touching it and actively trying to be in the fandom in 2018they were the type to do secret behind your back sharing information with each other while pretending to be nice to you before the wave hit /: the stalking and back stabbing was so bad and all to defend the vampires.a group I had hangged out with for a short time was completely anti the main character considering her the main problem which is so bizarre it’s the most broken mess of logic and the main reason I could never get fooled by antism as it grew after that point. those people and those experiences are one traumatizing mess of fucked up i don’t even think I got the words to have explained any of it wellplease do finish the media it so gooooood huge fan of the stage play myself mostly but i just really love stage shows < 3

That’s so fascinating, anon. It’s so strange when antis get attached to media that should by rights be the exact kind of thing they’re so stubbornly against.

I hesitate to say it, but maybe they bully proshippers because they’re wrestling with feelings and urges that they feel ashamed of, and proshippers represent the fulfilment of those urges…

I was introduced to Diabolik lovers through, I believe, an anime, and then found myself poking at the game. I might see if I still have my save file..

yall think writing pedo porn “would be fun”???

Don’t you think this is a strange and uncomfortable– even rude– question to ask someone out of the blue, anon?

Why are you speculating about the kind of pornography we write?

I’m feeling a bit sexually harassed.

Please delete this if you don’t feel comfy answering Do all of your alters share the same opinions about shipping as the main ones who run this blog?

Hi anon! Thanks for the question!

ā™¦ļø First off (and we will probably add this to our bio) “alter” is a strictly clinical term that applies specifically to members of a DID system or other plural system under a clinical model.

You haven’t done anything wrong, but we want to make it clear that this isn’t terminology that we use for our system members, as it does not apply to us, and makes many of us uncomfortable to have used to describe us for reasons I won’t go into here.

When you don’t know what language a plural system uses to describe the people in their system “system members” is always a safe bet!

ā™¦ļø As for your actual question; there aren’t any members of our system who would specifically fall on the ‘anti’ side of things, but there are a lot of us who just don’t care, think it’s a stupid thing to waste energy arguing about, etc.

There are a number of our members who are squicked by the same kinds of things that typically upset fancops, but they are capable of exercising “don’t like, don’t read”.

For the record, there are ~25 members of Sinister, most of whom front in the body fairly regularly, but a lot of us have no interest in blogging/fanfiction/discourse outside of occasionally talking about their day or reblogging picture of themselves.

The handful of us you see posting regularly are the ones who are interested in those things for the most part.

perfectlycrazydragon:

blackheart-biohazards:

perfectlycrazydragon:

blackheart-biohazards:

Congratulations on making your fandom smaller, and less fun for yourself. 🫤

You should probably just assume that everyone on theĀ ā€˜fandom Qanon’ site is a proshipper, tbh.

Can you clarify what you mean when you refer to AO3 as ‘fandom Qanon’ please?

Sure! Essentially:Ā  You don’t go to either and expect everyone to be writing nothing but squeaky-clean G-rated things.

Thank you for the clarification! I agree with the comparison in that way.

I forget my own blog url but I’m on a friend’s phone It’s Decade, that anon about if it says nothing us vile is a vile person full stop for thinking so as far as I’m concerned because at the end of the day it’s a known way to cope using fiction by survivors and victims to write and touch media that makes it -just a thing-. From making it sound neutral to sound hot it helps us reconceptualize the trauma in a new lense. It helps us work past it. This is a very -known- tactic. And you’re insistence that same tactic anon shouldn’t exist is once again another sweeping statement that insists it hurts us to exist while actively again shaming and attacking the same kind of people you lot often say you’re protecting.I ain’t going to trauma drop but I gotta say making some of it just -a thing- and remove the constant evil around it to like it’s just another Tuesday is one of my coping machines and I dream to he able to write that to really get it out of me.There is no metric to be used to say what’s write or wrong that won’t fuck up or fuck over someone of the exact group if you have some compassion should be trying to defend. It’s part of why it all has to be accepted. There is no certainty. That’s why it’s best to fight for warnings and allowance than erasure.Sorry obviously this hit me so hard I yelled in your box at ’em. Hope you all are doing well Sinister

Honestly, thanks for yelling, and I’m glad you feel comfortable to yell here.

This kind of shit is exactly what fancops are missing when they try to shut down and censor fiction, assuming that they know why and by whom it was created.

meairsa:

blackheart-biohazards:

meairsa:

blackheart-biohazards:

meairsa:

i do wish there was a way to discuss taboo writings/art in predominantly fandom spaces without both sides of the argument getting defensive and screaming at each other

like i think there could be a really interesting discussion on why it’s created, the impacts it has, and the history of that type of media because it is nuanced and there isn’t one simple answer to everything

but for some reason you can’t do that bc the entire issue is so black and white to everyone and you either have to be 100% one way or the other

I mean, we try to have normal rational discussions about it all the time, but when we do people who call themselves antis make violent threats at us and accuse us of crimes.

yea i do definitively notice pros are more relaxed and don’t resort to name calling and threats as often, but i do think they still fall into the black and white thinking from my experience. like for example i’ve seen a lot of them say that fiction doesn’t affect reality and while that can be true i think it misses the point that fiction is a reflection of society and it can enforce beliefs of that society

I’m curious, genuinely, if you can recall any times you have actually seen any proshippers claiming that “fiction doesn’t affect reality”, because in my personal experience this is something that antis claim that proshippers say, rather than something that we actually say.

The actual proship stance is– broadly speaking– that creating or consuming fiction does not lead directly to action, and that the creators of fictional works cannot logically be held responsible for the actions of people who consume their work.

i can’t give you any screenshots lol but it is mostly on twitter, and it’s probably just defensive arguing and not something they wholeheartedly believe in but it doesn’t really help their cause

and i agree consuming fiction doesn’t directly lead to action, the persons choice to act is decided on already held beliefs and societal or personal urging

Yeah, I can imagine it being said in haste on twitter; the limited format really flattens any kind of nuance in conversation.

It sounds like you and we broadly agree.

It’s my personal belief that writing and art is influenced by social norms and pressures, and by individual experience– both the creation of art, and what art ‘speaks’ to you when you consume it.

I can’t imagine a scenario in which I were to hold an individual artist responsible for impacting social beliefs and culture in a meaningful way.

Art can ‘build up’ and influence culture, but that’s a confluence of the art and other social and political factors.

I feel like we can both agree that no one novel or especially one fanfiction is going to do harm to society.

For a work to have that kind of impact it would already have to be playing on a current cultural zeitgeist.

With that in mind, it seems authoritarian or cruel to tell an artist that they are forbidden from making a work because it *might* contribute in some small way to a greater social shift at work.

“Normalizing” something or causing social harm isn’t something one work or one artist can do outside of a system, and forbidding an artist from sharing a work because it might do so robs the art and the artist of any other impact that their work might have.

The same work that might, in some small way, be considered part of cultural or moral shift of normalizing something could be a work which is impactful and meaningful, and maybe even positive in a myriad of ways.

šŸ‘‰ Creating or consuming fiction does not lead to taking action in the real world.

šŸ‘‰ Consuming fiction about things that are against your morals does not change your firmly held morals.

šŸ‘‰ Creating or enjoying fiction about immoral, taboo or disgusting actions does not mean that you want to take part in those actions in real life.

šŸ‘‰ Whether or not the fiction in question is about sex or contains sexual content does not change any of the above.