The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.
That’s exactly the thing I’ve been thinking like….
they call proshippers the ‘abuse apologists’
who REALLY is the apologist here? Antishippers freely watch as their own tear into others and excuse it with “Well their targets were PROSHIPPERS so they (proshippers) deserved it”
same with calling proshippers ‘rape apologists’
and yet they provide THAT kind of cover for actual rapists [Some who were excused purely because they were antishippers, thanks twitter!]
Antis, some advice:
Maybe stop chucking rocks through your windows just to hit the other glass house you THINK you see.In the past five years alone, I have seen:
- Five incidents where antis were caught either sharing CSEM in private or on public platforms like Twitter, both alone and en mass.
- Two incidents where antis actively tried to convince people not to spread word that one of their own was a confirmed rapist, one of which even admitted it was because it made them look bad.
- One incident where a particularly infamous and active anti went into someone’s DMs to prove that they had doxxed them, then threatened in extremely graphic detail how they knew that person’s rapist and intended to release their address to said rapist so they could attack them again.
- At least ten incidents where adult antis were outed as rapists after having lengthy tirades about how people who draw “icky” fan art are disgusting and deserve either imprisonment or death.
- One of the above incidents stands out since the rapist anti spent the majority of their confession post blaming their victim, insisting that they deserved and enjoyed it, and even believed themselves to be the real victim because they were deprived of a loving relationship with their victim that they believed they deserved.
- At least fifteen incidents where adult antis turned out to be pedophiles themselves; hoarding and/or sharing CSEM, openly championing the idea that pedophilia is good and that the age of consent should be lowered or abolished, caught actively grooming minors (some of which were family members), and even having been convicted for child rape.
But yeah, somehow everyone who isn’t part of the cult whose members produce a new sex scandal every week is an abuse apologist.
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It felt so horrid to be chased out of places, one was an amino where they had a space for controversial topics and I was discussing it there and the mods kicked me out of the chat and gave me a warning. So I left because I felt unwanted.I had a huge NSSI meltdown over it as it was a very dear space, I was there for years, I tried so hard to be kind and help people and met lots of good friends. I was even a mod at one point and they liked me, I hate how quickly they turned on me. I still miss it now and trying to make my own space but it’s not going well.I feel lonely online now, and mobility is getting harder so that’s making social more difficult, and at work sometimes I feel like it’s hard to talk to people. Anti just makes no sense to me, it seems hypocritical and nasty and counter productive. Art shouldn’t be a crime.
Anon, I am so sorry that that happened to you.
Online socialization is so, so important for so many of use that are homebound. It’s another dimension of antis ableism that that is something they don’t even take into account.
I hope you can find a space online where you feel wanted and where you belong.
please stop stalking my blog.
sure. stop posting about me <3
peace n love and maybe dont hang out round people so willing to make threats of violence
@catgirl-izuru You can not demand that other people respect your boundaries while you are breaking theirs.
You can not demand special treatment while you harass people.
If the venn diagram of proshippers and transphobia is a circle, then why are all accounts of me being misgendered from antis? In fact, all exclusionist shit(such as aphobia, panphobia, transmed, etc) directed towards me too, came directly from antis. I’ve only had one proshipper say some exclusionist bullshit to me, one. Literally more common for the bigots to be on the side policing what fiction someone likes me thinks.Oh, and while we’re at it, can we bring up how it’s more common for antis to be racist? I’ve seen that “Japan is pedophile paradise” bs so many times it hurts. I’ve had two white anti shippers harass me, wish me dead, and call me god awful names because God forbid a black person likes a ship where a character of color is happy compared to the canon ship. Don’t get me started on the slurs too, I’ve been called n***er, we’ve seen Lacey(a Jewish proshipper)also be called n***er along with k*ke, I’ve seen ch**k thrown around on Twitter towards the Asian(not just Japanese, they’ve done it to Chinese, Korean, etc as well)parts of fandom. God dammit, remember “freaks of color” over a Star Wars ship?And the ablism. I’ve had ret**d thrown at me, same with again Lacey, and many others. Always an anti.And even when there are bigots in the proship community, we always call it out and disown them. Antis never do it for their own, they either ignore or encourage it. But no, being anti-censorship, anti-harassment, and being ship and let ship is the pipeline to bigotry.
I have seen a lot of fancops using ableist language, and eugenics terminology and viewpoints.
I have seen a lot of fancops hurl around racist insults and be openly antisemitic.
I have seen a lot of fancops who are obviously anti-japanese.
I have seen a lot of fancops invalidate the trauma of survivors, and directly wish further abuse on them, or tell them they’re glad their abuse happened.
I have seen a lot of fancops deliberately misgender people.
It’s really sad, but it’s not surprising.
Fancops are the fox news watchers of fandom.
im a scaramouche fictive and when antis simp for me in canon im like “bro how r u forgetting the atrocities i’ve committed. just because im cute and have trauma and mommy issues doesn’t mean i didn’t do rly fucking terrible things” it’s just so funny to me
Isn’t it funny how antis hold blorbo responsible for the atrocities blorbo committed when its YOUR blorbo?
But THEIR blorbo is mysteriously perfect and unproblematic?
–signed, a fellow fictive
antis have gotten worse since the last time i was involved with their following. back then it used to be “that’s gross dni” and now its gotten to “women are only into ‘gross’ media bc they’re incapable of thought”. which is something i never thought i would see with my own eyes. I’m not sure if you’ve seen it, but recently, an “aspiring librarian” said with their whole chest that if anyone asked them where the “incest, gore, etc. books were” that they would burn the place down.which dissolved into a long line of ppl saying they would do the same and how it was the “morally correct thing to do”.you know, “for the children”. – 💔
We saw that post too! It’s so sad and upsetting…
I think the anti numbers are diminishing, but the rhetoric gets closer and closer to other conservative stuff.
It’s what we call a “moral panic.” :C
You know what I find stupid about antis bringing up the age thing though, you know the “She’s legal! She’s over 6,000-years-old!” is that they not only say it unironically, but they act like everyone is saying it unironically as an excuse for “pedophilia.” I have never in my life, since it’s conception, ever seen someone say the “6,000-years-old loli” joke as a legit excuse to lude a character. It was a joke, a literal edgy joke.But no, antis not only ruin it by taking it seriously, but by putting it into people’s mouths who never said anything about it.Not to mention, it doesn’t support their argument about how stuff like this “normalizes pedophilia,” when no human can live to be 6,000. We barely manage to reach 100, let alone any child.(Side note, it also really means jackshit when it involves immortal/non-human creatures. They’re not real so the correlations to that and pedophilia makes no sense.)
Anon, I’m going to be real with you.
I’m in the fandom that has a lot of actual 6000 year old dragon lolis in it. (Fire Emblem).
And lots of people (outside anti communities) create lewd work of the 6000 year old dragon loli characters.
and that’s fine.
What someone is saying when they claim that sexual content of 6000 year old dragon lolis is pedophilic what they are saying is that
- they believe attraction to people with immature features is inherently pedophilic
- they believe attraction to people with childish or immature behaviors is inherently pedophilic.
And we have been over why a mindset like that is inherently ableist and bigoted.
You can’t say adults who look childish don’t deserve sex and romance.
You can’t say adults who behave like children don’t deserve sex and romance.
6000 year old dragon lolis are not children. They’re not real, they’re characters, and they’re not even child characters.
honestly, antis being super transphobic is because a majority of them choked on that terf juice, because anti ideology is rooted in terfism and swerfism, plain and simple. it’s unfortunate, and tbh it has only gotten worse over the years – 🌧🍬
the terf juice, anti porn, sex negative attitudes are all rooted in the same place, too. Conservative purity culture.
Its all the same shit you see in Fox news filtered down into fandom spaces!
Fancops seem to believe that
“all things that are illegal are bad.”
and
“all things that are bad are illegal.”
Which is just like, really fascinating to me. Like, what a thing to believe.
“all proshippers are transphobes” cool, then wtf is up with all the misgendering I got when antis decided me coping with transphobia through fiction was unacceptable and reflected my real life beliefs. Any explanation for why they called me a transphobe and a cishet girl WHILE knowing I’m a trans guy?
Because fancops weaponize progressive language against their enemies in order to demonize and harass them.
If fancops think you’re a proshipper they don’t respect you, and will feel free to use any kind of hurtful language on you that they please without thinking there will be a consequence.