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antis are running rampant these days with the same old same old 🥱 reminder that they’re anonymous pussies who don’t deserve your time nor your energy.

don’t respond to them with your heart in tact, they could’ve blocked u after sending their asks and kiki’ing about it in their discord servers.

don’t give them a chance of knowing you’ve seen their asks, delete them immediately. don’t even post about receiving any.

they don’t know who you are so do not give them a chance to by spilling anything to them.

after deleting the asks, if you feel down, get off the app and distract urself w things that make u happy or create a vent piece, listen to music, pick up a random show that u wouldn’t watch, watch youtube videos, cook. anything.

don’t even waste your time with these antis. their heads are so far up eachother’s asses, they can’t smell nothing but their own shit. do you really want to give up your precious time and energy to that? 🤨

Kys

Oh gosh anon!!

That’s not how you spell kiss!!

Kissie kissie kissie I love you too tho!!! 💖💞💕🥰

707385989786730496 i don’t know about other proshippers but i don’t advertise what i am because i’ve gotten death threats and invasive asks and honestly i’m just here on tumblr to reblog memes and gif sets and send crabs to my friends’ pages not to deal with someone telling me to kys because i also ship a 15 year old with their teacher

Yep. That is exactly why people hide that they’re proship. To protect themselves from unjust harassment and threats.

Too bad this fancop doesn’t get that.

How come I always see anti’s saying the same things about us that we do about them They say they get hatred and attacks, they say proshippers break DNI, they say that we say they deserved their abuse, everything we say over here they say we do the same thing I never see screenshots tho, so maybe that’s the difference

It’s absolutely the difference, anon.

If proshippers were harassing antis on the scale that antis harass proshippers, they would never shut up about it.

There would be daily callout posts.

Bad actors exist in every group. There are proshippers who have harassed antis.

But they’re in the minority.

Whereas antishipping is almost entirely based around cyberbullying people they don’t like, and its obvious.

Just check out #anti receipts

Why is almost everyone I meet with catgirl-(character), dogboy-(character) or (character)s(random object or fetish) in their url an aggressive harasser /rhetorical

Because they mistakenly equate possessing a harmless aesthetic with being someone who does not cause harm.

Antis like to think nobody off tumblr cares about their censorship bullshit, but they’ll be unhappy to learn that, off tumblr, people just don’t call them “antis”. They call them moral panickers and, of course, censorship advocates. A la the satanic panickers, video game causing violence panickers, etc. Lots and lots of examples in history. Antis just like to think because they have a ‘cutesy tumblr name’ for themselves, they’re not as significant and it’s both alarming and strongly indicative of their own grossly distorted perspective..

Fancops like to have it both ways.

On the one hand they consider their bullying and abuse to have no affect on people because its “just online” and its “words on a screen”.

But at the same time they insist that everybody out in the real world agrees with them and thinks proshippers are disgusting.

They’re wrong about both things.

Thank you for not bullying people over fiction 💞

Thank you for not being a jerk to people who write or draw things that you don’t like.

Thank you so much for your post. I’ve been harassed to the point where I had to get hospitalized because my F/O is a minor in canon and everyone called me a pedophile even though I aged him up. I tried so hard to hate him and get away from him but I never could… Despite all this I still love him very much and I think I always will.

Anon, I am so sorry that happened to you.

I was really hesitant to join the self ship community when I learned about it last year, because at the time, my most intense f/o was a high school student (Mukuro) and i had seen so much hostility from some people about that kind of thing.

You absolutely did not deserve any of the abuse or harassment that you received and I hope you know that.

I hope that you can break through those feelings of self loathing and find joy with your F/O again. There is always space for you in the proselfship community.

Liking a character who is canonically underage doesn’t make you a pedophile, and almost no one in the world would even suggest that it does. Fancops are the outliers.

Chronically online, touch grass, and brain rot/wormsAll feel like gross phrases to me as they are just conversation stopping insults on the same lines as “get a life” They just seem like bullies new favourite phrase (and it’s ironic bc they appeared after the lockdowns after everyone had just spent two years inside)

You’re right. It’s because they’re all synonyms, and they all mean the same thing.

They mean “I don’t like you because you aren’t like me, and I only want people who are acceptably like me to exist.”

If the venn diagram of proshippers and transphobia is a circle, then why are all accounts of me being misgendered from antis? In fact, all exclusionist shit(such as aphobia, panphobia, transmed, etc) directed towards me too, came directly from antis. I’ve only had one proshipper say some exclusionist bullshit to me, one. Literally more common for the bigots to be on the side policing what fiction someone likes me thinks.Oh, and while we’re at it, can we bring up how it’s more common for antis to be racist? I’ve seen that “Japan is pedophile paradise” bs so many times it hurts. I’ve had two white anti shippers harass me, wish me dead, and call me god awful names because God forbid a black person likes a ship where a character of color is happy compared to the canon ship. Don’t get me started on the slurs too, I’ve been called ner, we’ve seen Lacey(a Jewish proshipper)also be called ner along with k*ke, I’ve seen chk thrown around on Twitter towards the Asian(not just Japanese, they’ve done it to Chinese, Korean, etc as well)parts of fandom. God dammit, remember “freaks of color” over a Star Wars ship?And the ablism. I’ve had retd thrown at me, same with again Lacey, and many others. Always an anti.And even when there are bigots in the proship community, we always call it out and disown them. Antis never do it for their own, they either ignore or encourage it. But no, being anti-censorship, anti-harassment, and being ship and let ship is the pipeline to bigotry.

I have seen a lot of fancops using ableist language, and eugenics terminology and viewpoints.

I have seen a lot of fancops hurl around racist insults and be openly antisemitic.

I have seen a lot of fancops who are obviously anti-japanese.

I have seen a lot of fancops invalidate the trauma of survivors, and directly wish further abuse on them, or tell them they’re glad their abuse happened.

I have seen a lot of fancops deliberately misgender people.

It’s really sad, but it’s not surprising.

Fancops are the fox news watchers of fandom.