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Rant: I’m sick of being told to take accountability and to make sure others are comfortable because I fucking do all the time. Though it doesn’t matter how much you do that, the second you express your needs and want they turn on you in a second. Even if you are in pain.

There is a word for people who demand that you cater to their comfort and needs while disregarding your comfort and needs.

Abusers.

wandering-wolf23:

Re: that post circulating on anti Tumblr.

If you harass me, sui-bait me, send me gore, make a bomb threat, or otherwise make an ass of yourself to the point where I’m feeling uncomfortable, I am going to fill out the online form and report you to the appropriate authorities. I do not have to put up with illegal actions just because the person doing them is a minor. Those actions, believe it or not, have consequences.

I don’t care if you’re 12, 14, or even 18. I’m sorry if your parents are homophobic assholes. That is not my problem. What is my problem is waking up to an inbox full of harassment because some minor gets pissed off about things they aren’t even supposed to be looking at. I am not going to allow a petulant child to destroy my mental health because they can’t handle well tagged dark fic that explicitly tells them under 18s DNI.

You don’t want people to report you for harassment? Don’t fucking harass people in the first place.

It’s always okay to feel that something is: icky, gross, upsetting, disturbing, disgusting, repellant, triggering, nasty, weird, unsightly or in bad taste.

What isn’t okay is: insulting that thing to it’s creators face, wishing violence on that thing’s creator and people who support them, claiming the person who created it is a bad person for making it, telling people they arent allowed to make or enjoy things that you personally dont like.

terribleanimal:

the rise of “progressive” furries that share an alarming amount of beliefs and characteristics with conservative puratism is hysterical but also somehow more annoying. like christian conservatives at least point to god and ancient texts to back up their weird cult, these furries just point to themselves and declare ‘im the objective moral genius’. and yes this is partially in reference to all the furries on twitter flipping their goddamn wig over furry wolf tits on someones desktop and how that some sort of moral failing

…What parent is hoping their child isn’t looking at “weird” porn?! Most parents are more concerned about their kid finding porn at all! Not what kind they’re looking at!Seriously, what parent out there has ever been, “Oh sure do hope my son Billy doesn’t watch that tentacle hentai or any of that step-siblings stuff. Nope! This is a vanilla porn house here!” No parent, ever.What is massreportingproshippers even talking about?! How far in the ass did that take come from?!

Yeah the venn diagram between

“parents who approve of their children looking at porn at all”

and

“parents who think it’s important that their children look at the RIGHT porn”

is probably pretty small.

“would you tell your parents about proship? No? Then don’t do it”Bit of a privileged outlook to think how your parents react is what you should base your moral principles on”would you tell your boss about proship?”I wouldn’t tell my boss about most things dude

“Would you tell your parents” is suuuuch a privileged outlook.

I’m not gonna trauma dump but we don’t tell our parents jack shit.

“Would you tell your boss” is meanwhile an appeal to an authority most of us simply don’t respect.

tiredofmygrief:

blackheart-biohazards:

So you want parents to be involved with their child’s sex lives? Is that what you’re saying?

A parent trying to make certain that their child’s porn and sexual habits align with their own actually sounds like grooming to me.

Thing is I’ve talked about this exact discourse with my parents in detail of what exactly Antis think is so terrible.

And the verdict from both of them is that Antis like this one are out of their gourd.

Because my family is full of generations of readers and people who adore books. The concept of having genuine distress to the point of harassment over fictional scenarios, no matter how fucked up, is frankly insane to them.

“I’m very confident” that you know other people’s parents better than they do is a pretty bold claim. Because you’re wrong. So you should check that confidence. Since it’s found on literally nothing.