It’s absolutely the difference, anon.
If proshippers were harassing antis on the scale that antis harass proshippers, they would never shut up about it.
There would be daily callout posts.
Bad actors exist in every group. There are proshippers who have harassed antis.
But they’re in the minority.
Whereas antishipping is almost entirely based around cyberbullying people they don’t like, and its obvious.
Just check out #anti receipts
That sounds like a very unhealthy relationship to be in, anon, and I hope that you and the other person can step away from each other.
Maybe you can reconcile your differences later, but it sounds like you both need a break at the very least.
I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been going through this.
We’ve seen some of this anti’s behavior ourselves and it’s pretty truely awful. Another example of aggressive and hypocritical antis.
I hope anyone who will feel safer by blocking this user will do so.
Antis really have a lot of unexamined ableism and eugenics in their mindsets, and this is a case of it.
They expect every person to fit a certain mold and anyone who doesn’t….
Well, they’re perfectly comfortable saying anyone who is attracted to a person under 5’5 is a pedophile,
and equally comfortable saying that anyone who is attracted to an autistic person is a pedophile.
Oh but don’t you see, anon?
THEY are enjoying the shotacon series in a wholesome and moral way!
While you, a disgusting degenerate with no morals are clearly enjoying it in a loathsome and unwholesome way!
It’s really funny when antis try to explain how their shipcest homestuck ship isn’t actually shipcest.
I am shaking my head and scoffing!
Huh.
Yeah I guess antis don’t even bother to tag their stuff.
i mean they do, it just more like “proshippers die” “i will violently murder you” “your parent will rape you” than a simple “anti” and “antishipper”
Well put.
Man. We just wanna kiss fictional characters.
Nobody gets hung up on the ages of the characters except you fancops.
“she’s in high school”– she’s an imaginary idea! She can be an astronaut if I want her to be.
The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.
That’s exactly the thing I’ve been thinking like….
they call proshippers the ‘abuse apologists’
who REALLY is the apologist here? Antishippers freely watch as their own tear into others and excuse it with “Well their targets were PROSHIPPERS so they (proshippers) deserved it”
same with calling proshippers ‘rape apologists’
and yet they provide THAT kind of cover for actual rapists [Some who were excused purely because they were antishippers, thanks twitter!]
Antis, some advice:
Maybe stop chucking rocks through your windows just to hit the other glass house you THINK you see.In the past five years alone, I have seen:
- Five incidents where antis were caught either sharing CSEM in private or on public platforms like Twitter, both alone and en mass.
- Two incidents where antis actively tried to convince people not to spread word that one of their own was a confirmed rapist, one of which even admitted it was because it made them look bad.
- One incident where a particularly infamous and active anti went into someone’s DMs to prove that they had doxxed them, then threatened in extremely graphic detail how they knew that person’s rapist and intended to release their address to said rapist so they could attack them again.
- At least ten incidents where adult antis were outed as rapists after having lengthy tirades about how people who draw “icky” fan art are disgusting and deserve either imprisonment or death.
- One of the above incidents stands out since the rapist anti spent the majority of their confession post blaming their victim, insisting that they deserved and enjoyed it, and even believed themselves to be the real victim because they were deprived of a loving relationship with their victim that they believed they deserved.
- At least fifteen incidents where adult antis turned out to be pedophiles themselves; hoarding and/or sharing CSEM, openly championing the idea that pedophilia is good and that the age of consent should be lowered or abolished, caught actively grooming minors (some of which were family members), and even having been convicted for child rape.
But yeah, somehow everyone who isn’t part of the cult whose members produce a new sex scandal every week is an abuse apologist.
Anon, I am so sorry that that happened to you.
Online socialization is so, so important for so many of use that are homebound. It’s another dimension of antis ableism that that is something they don’t even take into account.
I hope you can find a space online where you feel wanted and where you belong.