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Thank you so much for your post. I’ve been harassed to the point where I had to get hospitalized because my F/O is a minor in canon and everyone called me a pedophile even though I aged him up. I tried so hard to hate him and get away from him but I never could… Despite all this I still love him very much and I think I always will.
Anon, I am so sorry that happened to you.
I was really hesitant to join the self ship community when I learned about it last year, because at the time, my most intense f/o was a high school student (Mukuro) and i had seen so much hostility from some people about that kind of thing.
You absolutely did not deserve any of the abuse or harassment that you received and I hope you know that.
I hope that you can break through those feelings of self loathing and find joy with your F/O again. There is always space for you in the proselfship community.
Liking a character who is canonically underage doesn’t make you a pedophile, and almost no one in the world would even suggest that it does. Fancops are the outliers.
Chronically online, touch grass, and brain rot/wormsAll feel like gross phrases to me as they are just conversation stopping insults on the same lines as “get a life” They just seem like bullies new favourite phrase (and it’s ironic bc they appeared after the lockdowns after everyone had just spent two years inside)
You’re right. It’s because they’re all synonyms, and they all mean the same thing.
They mean “I don’t like you because you aren’t like me, and I only want people who are acceptably like me to exist.”
“WE KNOW SHIPPING TWO PEOPLE WHO ARENT REAL ISNT WRONG BUT ITS WEIRD 😡” where have I seen this argument used before
Gay marriage?
Transgender discourse?
Kink discourse?
I could probably go on.
I looked at the ask box v_v
I’ve been meaning to write this fic between a s/i OC of mine and a yandere version of a character from MHA. But I’m scared to post it. I keep pysching myself out of doing it. Like is it too self-indulgent? Is there some things I need to work out here since it’s gonna involve a lot(and I mean A LOT)of dark and triggering topics that I have experienced IRL? Am I being racially insensitive with my s/i being a mixed race person in a country that doesn’t like racial diversity despite being in a similar position? Idk, I’m self-conscious about it because I don’t wanna be insensitive about that last part nor do I want antis to come and harass me for also trying to work out my problems.
There is no such thing as fiction that is too self indulgent, anon. I hope you do post and share it.
It is always okay to use your dark experiences to share your perspective in fiction.
The world is richer for your fiction and your perspective being shared.
Not all art is about ‘goof representation’.
Meaningful art can be transgressive and challenging, both to the observer, and to the creator.
I really hope you share your work with the world, anon.
Can’t explain it. One of my f/os has this weird…son/clone thing of himself, who is super evil. I love thinking about him realizing that, realizing that this awful dictator who dropped an actual nuke on his own city, who pays people to commit crime, is…in some way, himself. It’s delightfully awful ^.^– 🍉💌
I relate to your f/o in that scenario maybe a little too much to enjoy it myself, but I love your passion, friend! Good stuff!
One of the smaller things I hate about (most) anti is how.. in denial they are about their own hypocrisydo some people who are proship not take criticism well? Yeah, but that’s generally not because they’re proship it’s because they either didn’t what the criticism (not all criticism is welcome, especially when on something done for fun) or just aren’t good with dealing with it. It’s happens it’s not a “group specific thing”, it’s just people.(You’s are general)you tell some to die? Not criticism you are at best, being an asshole.someone tells you your troll fic “wasn’t fun”, that is criticism, and vaild. Especially when it already breaks site (ao3) rules.You tell someone that their miss tagged work made you uncomfortable and they should fix the mistake? That’s not an entirely unreasonable request, and yet could be considered criticism. You tell someone that their correctly tagged work made you uncomfortable and they shouldn’t write it? Not criticism, you ignored tag and warnings that were put in place for you. If you’re uncomfortable that’s fine, nothing wrong with that but that doesn’t remove the right of the work.I guess I’m just tired of people getting mad, because someone didn’t like the criticism they left on a work they did for fun and didn’t even want criticism on.criticism isn’t a bad thing, but it needs to be used in the right places and times. Someday AU fanart doesn’t need a 3 page eassy on why is “so uncanon”
Well said, anon.
schrodinger’s inbox.
If I don’t look at our inbox I don’t have to feel guilty for not answering the asks in it.
Some positivity for self shippers with ‘young’ F/Os.
💖 There is nothing wrong with self shipping with a character who is portrayed in their media as being under 18 years old.
💖 Even if you are an adult.
💖 No matter how old you are.
💖 You never have to stop liking a character just because of their age, or your age.
💖 It’s okay to age up your F/O if it makes you more comfortable, but you don’t have to.
💖 It’s okay to age down your S/I if it makes you more comfortable, but you don’t have to.
💖 A fictional character is a fictional character.
💖 There is no fictional character who it is wrong for you to self ship with.