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I had a friend who I thought was the best person ever until I found out the hard way that they held my past actions as a jerk and anti against me bc I hurt them. Even if I didn’t condone harassment, i had views that hurt people ik. I found out bc I said that I relate too much to this character who’s a shitty person and they said, “Oh my God, fuck off and shut up, don’t you dare say that again.” And went on an extremely wrathful rant and said that they’d never forgive me if I left their side.

That sounds like a very unhealthy relationship to be in, anon, and I hope that you and the other person can step away from each other.

Maybe you can reconcile your differences later, but it sounds like you both need a break at the very least.

I used to be a violently aggressive anti and I honestly really regret that. I don’t think these people realize they’re just making themselves feel bad by actively searching out that stuff to be hateful. I’m not proship or an anti but fucking hell man seeing the ways antis act up about ANYTHING is brain damaging lol

Anon, we are so glad that you have gotten yourself out of that toxic mindset. Please take care of yourself, and have fun!

Had a “haha plz don’t harass me” anti phase a few years ago, and people like that always remind me of that. We were still (collectively! as a system!) very into gore (sexually even!) and noncon (also sexually!) but l0lish0 was the apparent line in the sand because uhhhhhhh reasons? Anyway our host’s a huge sh0tac0n now, who’s surprised? /light hearted

[Image: a commonly used ‘meme’ gif of a black woman gesturing while saying: “you know what that is? Growth.”]