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(feel free to ignore if this is too vent-y) do you guys have any advice for times when you start doubting your f/o actually returns your feelings? feeling that way about one of my Resident Evil f/os rn and doubt is a horrible beast

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I start to doubt my f/o returns my feelings when I’m feeling self loathing for myself. If I feel like my f/o doesn’t love me, it’s because I’m not feeling love for myself.

I promise you it is easier for others to love you than for you to love yourself.

Your f/o loves you. Your f/o, no matter who they are, would be upset, maybe even angry to find out that you were doubting their love for you.

Your f/o loves you when no one else loves you. Your f/o loves you when you can’t love yourself.

There are a lot of Resident Evil characters in sinister and our partner system, and I don’t know who your f/o is, but I guarantee you that if your f/o is anything like any of the people here they are sending you all their love and affection, and are deeply frustrated that you can’t feel it. I know your f/o wants to be there for you.

Anon, I hope you can remember your f/o will always, always love you.

You love your f/o when they don’t love themselves, they love you the same.

Okay, so! I was getting spoiled about a new episode from the show my F/O is from and I decided to watch the episode to see what the hype is all about And my F/O is HEAVILLY shipped with another character, but thankfully she’s VERY similar to me, physically and personality wiseIn the episode, she ends up having a panic attack and her powers get out of contros, so he rescues her, comforts her and helps her calm downOne of my biggest worries is that my F/Os wouldn’t love me because I have BPD, but that made me feel so understood and loved and I’m just so happy that he’d actually accept and love me just the way I am :’DDD-💙

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Aw, anon, I’m really glad that could reassure you. (I also have a suspicion what show you’re talking about and I’m hoping to catch up with it soon.)

I love it when characters show their caring and compassionate sides, even when it’s in unusual ways.

I often find that fictional characters are often more compassionate than a lot of real people– even the characters who are considered ‘bad guys’ or just bad people in fiction.

I’ve had antis accuse me of being into ddlg… for asking them not to add discussions about it to my posts about kink… because ddlg set off my anxiety and I didn’t want to hear about it. I wasn’t even defending it, I just didn’t want to hear about it. This was back when I was trying to stay closeted about being proship/profic and pro kink cause I was afraid that not only would I get harassed horrendously but that I’d be forced to discuss things that trigger me. I basically shoved my way out when I realized staying quiet about my thoughts wouldn’t keep me from being harassed or forced to get into subjects I couldn’t handle. Antis wouldn’t allow me that luxury. It was be an anti or be a target.

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Fancops won’t let anybody do anything they don’t like.

They very much have an “if you aren’t with us, you’re against us” mentality.

I’m convinced that half the reason they accuse us of being pedos, dog fuckers etc, isn’t because they really believe it but rather because they want to trigger and upset us.

Dude my “unacceptable urges” include dealing nonsexual violence to abusive parents and tankies, they don’t include raping children I’m attracted toDon’t need “support” like that lol please and thanks

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So let me see if I have this right anon.

You think people who have the urge to rape children shouldn’t receive therapy and community support to control their behavior and stop them from offending?

You think people who have the urge to rape children should be isolated and left alone to spiral out until they break and give in to their intrusive urges?

That’s what you’re saying?

Oh my gosh.

Oh my gosh I think 🔍⚔️ read this ask wrong this morning.

I think anon is actually saying they are a pedophile who is unsatisfied with our level of support. ?????

Hey, uh, idk of this is the right place for this but I recently realized I might have Kleptomania. Like actually. Anyway I also have Issues and I would actually trust you guys with my life so if you wouldn’t mind giving me advice/showing me where I can get advice to not…y’know…go to jail for shoplifting* that would be great.*Like, ideally I wouldn’t steal anything but everytime I am in a place with Things I get grabby, especially when I’m alone, and somehow nothing has been stolen yet but I worry because lately it’s getting worse. How do I curb these urges without…y’know…?

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Hey, pal, Nine (🐸☠️) here, I feel you on the shoplifting urges. I have been a petty thief in past both in my other lives and yeah I dragged the body into it irl here in our past.

We haven’t shoplifted in years, but I still get the urge a lot especially when a store is a really good ‘mark’. (Narrow aisles, aisles blocking the view between the desk and the exit.. hahah…)

Here is my advice on how I stop myself.

I remind myself that it just ain’t worth the hassle if I get caught.

An interaction with a security guard, cop, etc would just fucking ruin my day. Even if I’m real good (and yeah I am pretty good) the chance of getting caught just isn’t worth interrupting my day.

I will also warn you that once you have shoplifted you get a sting of anxiety EVERY time you go through a store alarm gate, even when you haven’t done anything. Super shitty drawback.

I indulge the itch sometimes by playing stealing games with people I know and trust. Stealing stuff out of their room or purse or whatever when they aren’t looking (they have agreed to this) and then giving it back later. That way it’s like a magic trick, you know?

I am sorry you are dealing with these urges and itchy fingers anon, I hope my advice has been worth something. Lemme know if I can do any more to help.

Peace, pal.

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  • Wesker (almost)died originally by being impaled by a Tyrant
  • Of all the things that he had planned, this was not one of them
  • Control was taken away from him, and this did not sit right
  • He killed Oswell Spencer by impaling him through the torso, just as he himself was back at Spencer Mansion. He became the tyrant himself, but also
  • He was redirecting, and reclaiming control

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people on tumblr be like “I’m going to create an environment that is so bad for people with OCD”

I’ve talked about this before, but some of the hot takes on this website sound identical to the intrusive thoughts I have at 4 in the fucking morning, so do with that information what you will

“you are a bad person if you don’t have this exact opinion about this minute detail”. maybe you should shut the hell up

“you’re a bad person if…”

“you’re not evil if you do x, it’s actually y that makes you a bad person!”

“if you don’t do x, something horrible will happen!”

stop it. you do not need to make arguments in this way, you really don’t. my OCD ass is struggling here

hey, let me explain!

the “obsessive” part of “obsessive compulsive disorder” refers to the OCD brain’s tendency to get into obsessive thought spirals. these are triggered by intrusive thoughts. one of the most common “themes” in OCD is morality (a fear of being a bad person)

when a website is full of accusations that you’re a bad person, it’s really hard for that to not become an obsessive thought spiral. if I am constantly made to feel like I’m evil if I don’t reblog a post, that’s not a long way off from my brain telling me that I’m evil if I don’t complete a compulsion

TLDR; OCD is really good at making someone feel like they’re secretly evil, and being accused of being a bad person makes that worse

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