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[b]self affirmations I am perfectly in my right to ask someone to adjust themselves if they are causing me pain. I would adjust myself so they should to. though self affirmations can turn into a dwelling loop so I’m going to try and add new brain experiences to break out of the loop. It’s good to try and give myself affirmations but my brain goes back and forth unless I distract myself

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I’m so glad you’re working on being able to center and prioritze your needs and boundaries anon.

…What parent is hoping their child isn’t looking at “weird” porn?! Most parents are more concerned about their kid finding porn at all! Not what kind they’re looking at!Seriously, what parent out there has ever been, “Oh sure do hope my son Billy doesn’t watch that tentacle hentai or any of that step-siblings stuff. Nope! This is a vanilla porn house here!” No parent, ever.What is massreportingproshippers even talking about?! How far in the ass did that take come from?!

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Yeah the venn diagram between

“parents who approve of their children looking at porn at all”

and

“parents who think it’s important that their children look at the RIGHT porn”

is probably pretty small.

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badmrkitty:

pro-fiction-jellicle:

We need to take away the phrase “violating boundaries” from fancops/puritans because they’re really just going the route of “you’re violating my boundaries by having sex in your bedroom in your private residence with your significant other”

I feel like in order to have personalized boundaries with people, you have to actually have a pre-existing relationship with them.

Otherwise, you abide by the same basic “don’t be a dick” rules you use for strangers on the street.