We have never seen happy sugar life, but this seems like really interesting analysis! Maybe we will put it on our to-watch list.
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(I don’t mind whether this gets posted or not, up to you) Okay so first of all i sent those asks about giant/tiny (📎) and immediately afterward i was like, “Well. That sure was a whole bunch of un-asked-for rambling out of nowhere. Kinda wish I hadn’t done that.” But you responded very gracefully and I’m grateful. :) Second of all, LOL okay I didn’t realize until today that we’re in a discord server together so it’s not unlikely you’ve already seen me say all that 😂 Hiiiii it’s Don, I like your blooog :P
Hi, Don! Thank you so much 😀
Hehe, we never mind getting weird or long asks, though we don’t ALWAYS publish them. I think you had some interesting things to say and it was fun to hear about!
We have an bit of history with the online fetish community (transformation, micro macro, etc etc) prior to tumblr so its really interesting to hear how things have changed in the community since tumblr became a hub.
I’m not trying to say “””problematic””” ships are of higher quality than vanilla ones because that’s inherently not correct. But, I’d say “””problematic””” ships have capacity to be more intriguing and even more realistic in some aspects (example: dysfunctional relationship between two deeply troubled characters). Because when you stick to vanilla, there’s a predefined codex of what characters are allowed to do and what not. Anything beside that strictly defines set of rules and morals is seen as unacceptable.Basic example, imagine character keeps on pushing other character’s boundaries because they think other getting used to something is normal. Is that healthy relationship behavior? Not really. But is it more realistic outcome when one is frustrated with other’s boundaries than to play therapists or tollerating certain behavior ad infinitum? Yup, seen countless irl examples like that. How about character having deep flaw they’re unable to overcome or it becomes domino effect for chains of tragedies that happen later on? Never moving on from loss or wallowing in own misery because character doesn’t think they deserve better – and having fate fuck then up even further.Ofc, vanilla can be fun to read, lighthearted. But I rarely see it possess depth. It rarely shows complexity of human nature, the ‘darker’ side. When antis say “””profic”‘” they mean fic that contains taboo subjects such as SA or hardcore abuse, but they’re missing the point. To me dark fics mean freedom of exploration of human’s psyche. I’m tossing characters together like barbie dolls and I don’t care if some barbie’s head falls off or barbie house catches on fire. If it means scenario and possibilities are more intriguing to explore
This is so real, anon.
Sorry for the essay here, but I feel like we need to talk about these types of antis more with the hypocritical type who like problematic media but will lose it if they see it in fandom. And tw for mentions of SA and murder.I can not stand antis who make everything to be problematic and go on witch-hunts over what they made up. For example, and not sure if you know about this from the MHA fandom, a couple years ago antis we’re throwing a fit and accusing the mangaka, Horikoshi, of making a chapter with rape in it. Called him every name under the sun, wished death upon him, and described the panels in graphic sexual detail and accused him as finding it “hot” and “sexy.” But here’s the thing, it wasn’t a rape scene nor was it sexualized, romanticized, or every buzzword antis like to use.I’m speaking as someone with a non-con kink and let me tell you, I know a non-con moment when I see one. No, the scene was graphic and it was disturbing, but no SA was happening. No it was disturbing because it had the character Twice being forced to watch his friend Toga almost get brutally murdered by clones of himself.These antis are so quick to call someone a pervert and accuse them of doing something sinister and disgusting, while that’s not even happening at all. And it’s down right disturbing because they do all this shit without warning. If you’re gonna wrongly talk about something in the wrong graphic details, then tag it, god damn. Or get critical thinking skills, because they are lacking if the confuse brutal murder with SA and act like you’re the morally superior one while you tell the accused to die.
I feel you, anon. Thanks for sharing this.
Telling someone that they’re a creep because /you/ failed to curate your own experiences and were to a blog that likes fictional shipcest while somehow expecting them to cater to you, a total stranger, is like walking into someone’s room and yelling at them for not setting up their room the way you wanted and springing drama on them, anon.
Hopefully one day they will understand that they’re the one violating my boundaries, not me violating thiers by existing.
The entitlement in that ask was real. What was that??? Did they really just put the responsibility on you to stop doing what you enjoy just because they don’t personally like it and blame their lack of curating and filtering their own experiences on you?
A lot of antis seem to think that it’s totally okay to tell someone else what to do like that!
I wanna know why that anti thought my statement was in favor for their stance. When I was pointing out that while something makes me uncomfortable, I find the antis reactions here piss me off more than anything.
I mean you literally said antis could fuck right off. They either can’t read or they were trying to start shit.
I’m guessing they can’t read tbh.
I’m sorry did that person literally just call out Rick x morty shippers and blame them for it being canon?? When that was the entire point of the show since the beginning or am I mistaken? Sorry to ask through your asks I’m just confused lmao
You’re not confused. That’s what they were saying.
While I’m not going to excuse proshippers at all…It’s the writers’ fault for catering to them.
Rick And Morty anon here, I’m a proshippers btw and that littlealeta person are the kinda people I was talking about that I can’t stand. If incest didn’t squick me I’d ship Rickorty just to spite them.
LOL! That’s what I figured, anon! That person came out of left field, and I think they’re confused. Which I guess is not surprising, as antis lack critical thinking skills, and assume everyone agrees with them.
Friendly reminder that telling antis to kill themselves is wrong not just because they may take it as a sign that their world views are reaffirmed, but they may also do it. Not even antis are immune to hate messages or hurting themselves in response to them.
1000% there is never ANY justification for that kind of message.