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miss-course:

antis are so self-obsessed they’ll hunt down problematic artists to squat in their comments and scream and cry about “youre romanticising my trauma!!!” in reference to just straight up porn

nobody is romanticising any part of you, dumbass, youre an annoying brat who can’t accept that not everything is about you. i promise you, nobody is into that!

If I can tell a feel – good story. I also used to be.. uhh very dictatorial about my boundaries due to past abuse, until I met someone who had the same double as me (which I had in my DNI) but.. she was so nice to me and I realized “maybe it can’t hurt to be friends with her” And to this day we have a blast talking about the same FO. I’m not saying people should just let their walls down but idk I thought I’d talk about this experience.

Sometimes we have more in common with people than we think, and it turns nicely. I’m so glad you had that experience.

so sorry for adding on the pile of asks y’all have but omfg? how utterly childish and annoying. what if i told them i didn’t like their art and that they should stop posting it? what if i told them that their art is trash and weird? even if it’s the fluffiest, most “safest” thing drawn? they wouldn’t like that, literally no one would. they’ll most likely say something along the lines “you don’t have to like my art” “then leave” “idc” etc etc. so why can’t this be put into practice when it’s the other way round?why on earth do they expect literally anyone on the internet to bow down to them and follow their rules when they enter these spaces on their own?? how entitled can they get???? how did these new wave of antis gets this bad? i am so sorry for rambling, op gave me major secondhand embarrassment, we’re around the same age and it’s just shameful they turned out like that LMFAKDBD /hj (never seen their art btw, just seen they were an artist before blocking them lol)

Honestly they gave our Toko second hand embarrassment too. I hope they will learn something from this interaction.

It just makes me sad to see people seething about their boundaries. I used to have a lot of trouble establishing boundaries, and I still struggle enforcing them irl. The comfort I get blocking people I don’t like is something I find vital to my experiences online. They can’t hurt me from behind the block.

We used to have extreme difficulty establishing boundaries too.

Even though its hard, it helps so much when you finally learn. I am so glad you are getting better at enforcing and blocking.

I’m sorry if this sounds a bit harsh, but people who make such hostile “follow my boundaries or else” posts are such losers. There are nicer ways to tell someone to respect boundaries, but that’s not even how boundaries work. But how are they supposed to know when all they want to hear is their own voice and people who unequivocally listen to them. Shit is so lame.

I wouldn’t call them losers. But they do seem very immature. I hope they grow and learn.