Tag Archives: proselfship

Some ideas for ways to celebrate your relationship with your F/O

πŸ’– Curation based

  • Hoard pictures of your F/O on social media, a website, or saved on your harddrive.Β 
  • Print out pictures of your F/O and create a shrine for them on your wall, or in a binder or folder.
  • Buy and display merchandise of your F/O.
  • Watch fan videos, character analyses, and meme compilations etc about your F/O.
  • Reblog self ship imagines that you like, and tag your F/O in them.
  • Reblog memes and posts that remind you of your F/O, and tag your F/O in them.
  • Put together a playlist of music that reminds you of your F/O.

πŸ’– Creation based

  • Make a self-insert character to ship with your F/O.
  • Make fanart about you/your S/I and your F/O
  • Write fanfiction about you/your S/I and your F/O.
  • Write a song or a poem about your F/O.
  • Write a character analysis of your F/O.
  • Edit screencaps of your F/O.
  • Make memes about your F/O.
  • Make crafts dedicated to or featuring your F/O.
  • Write a love letter to your F/O.
  • Write a love letter from your F/O.
  • Create a wedding certificate for you and your F/O.
  • Make moodboards and stimboards for your F/O.
  • Writesome F/O imagines that make you think of your F/O
  • Create an F/O prompt list or ask game with your F/O in mind.
  • Answer questions about your F/O from F/O prompts and ask games
  • Make picrews based on your and your F/O.

Idk if this is really the kind of ask you take but I’ve been wanting so bad to make a sideblog for my proshipping stuff bc I have anti mutuals on my main. But the only problematic ships I have are of my OCs, which i feel are very recognizable :/ i just dunno what i’m supposed to do with a proship sideblog if I can’t even talk about my ships… thinking i should just make a prompt/imagines blog vaguely based on my OCs instead??Sorry if this isn’t really the kind of ask you answer- just needed to get that off me and you’ve been very friendly with other anons ^^

Honestly, we’re happy to answer any type of ask! We won’t always know the answer, but we’ll do our best!

I have a few pieces of advice for you!

First!

Your new proship sideblog doesn’t have to only be about ships that are problematic! You can totally post about your non-problematic F/Os and ships, and just hang out with all the cool proship people.

Proship isn’t about “problematic” after all, its about a community that doesn’t judge you for your ships.

We on this blog talk about non problematic ships all the time!

Second!

The easy way to safely talk about your recognizable OCs is two parts.

  1. preemptively block on your new blog all the anti mutuals you think will recognize you. And any other antis as well.
  2. If it makes you feel safer, you can refer to your OCs by codenames or emoji combos instead of their recognizable names.

Third!

Making and sharing prompts and imagines based on your OCs sounds fun and great, an we would love to see your stuff when you share it!

I hope that all helped at least a little!

No disrespect to that anon uncomfortable with seeing their f/o shipped with someone from the source material, but it reminded me of the opposite that happened with me. Where I freaking happy squealed when I came across fanart of my f/o and another character.Hope this isn’t coming off as discrediting how the previous anon feels, it just reminded me of the opposite of that scenario.

I don’t think it’s discrediting at all, anon, every relationship is different, and has different boundaries, and that counts for F/O relationships too!

We’re all very poly here and also fictionkin, so there are only a few ships involving our F/Os that we don’t like seeing.

Hey, do you guys have any tips on how to deal with seeing your F/O being shipped with someone in their source material? I’m a bit self conscious and I’m scared that my F/O doesn’t like me anymore..

Oh gosh, anon. That isn’t something we really have experience with, but it super does suck…

My best advice would be to either

a) avoid the source material as much as you can, and just enjoy your F/O outside of that

b) treat ‘canon’ as an AU to your canon with you and your F/O.

Whatever you do, make sure to block all the ship tags for the pairing you’re trying to avoid on tumblr!

🀝, πŸ€—πŸ’‰ for Adachi if it’s okay? :D

πŸ”«πŸ³ here to answer these. (πŸŽ€πŸ’– is still too shy to talk about her own relationship with Adachi.)

🀝 Write about the first time you encountered your villain F/O.

He didn’t look like much when I met him. An overconfident city boy,s sent out into the boonies for making too much noise around the higher ups. Cute. A little obnoxious. Eager.

He reminded me of a kid, not in a way I hated, but in a way that weighed on my atrophied paternal instincts. I already had one kid I wasn’t taking good enough care of, and here I was, saddled with another as my partner.

I told myself I was going to try try not to get attached. Blew that one.

πŸ€— Write about the time you and your villain F/O first admitted your care for one another.

It took ages and ages. Neither of us was an expressive man who talked about his feelings. Affection passed between us without comment for years. ‘Come over for dinner’. ‘You can borrow my jacket’. ‘Don’t give me that look’.

I don’t know when we admitted it. Maybe some night, laying in the dark next to each other, thinking about the twisted mess of our lives. Maybe we admitted it in the darkness, like it wasn’t real without the lights on.

Like we wouldn’t have to acknowledge it in the morning.

πŸ’‰ Write about your villain F/O tending to your wounds.

Dojima hissed as Adachi wiped the cuts on his face down with a cotton ball swabbed in alcohol.

Adachi was smiling broadly, despite his partner’s bitter grumbling and sour face.

“Aw come on now, it’ll hurt more if it gets infected right?”

“I can do it myself you know,” Dojima protested. But he let Adachi keep at it.

ask game link

Shipcest prompts

Can be used for f/os or OTPs or any other kind of shipcest pairing. Can also be used as an ask game!

😴 A lazy day at home for your shipcest couple.

🏒 Parental shipcest: take your child to work day

🏫 Sibling shipcest: an incident at school.

🚫 Parental shipcest: called to the principal’s office.

🀫 β€œIt’s our secret, just for us.”

πŸ’‹ Shipcest first kiss.

πŸ’€ Shipcest couple almost gets caught by another family member.Β 

😷 Shipcest couple taking care of each other when one is sick

🎁 Shipcest couple giving each other presents.

😲 Sibling shipcest: an incident of sibling rivalry with a twist.

πŸ’ Your shipcest pairing’s anniversary together.

I can’t fix him, but i can give him the tools to enact his revenge, at his side as he sinks deeper and deeper into the darkness.Staying at his side, letting him know that even if he is a monster, I’ll help him gain closure.No matter how many bodies it takes✨Just F/o Things✨

Ahhh! I’m swooning! πŸ’•