Us: hey can you not be a freak on our posts with family relationships please, it makes us super uncomfortable
Proshippers: WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE???
just block them ????
Honestly the fact that you decided you and everyone like you have no obligation to care about the boundaries of other people when it gets in the way of Your Precious Ship is fucking disgusting.
It should not be up to us to go out of our way to stop you people from being gross on our posts. You have the ability to read “this is not a ship, don’t tag it as a ship” and respect that boundary but you actively decide not to.
Boundaries are something that YOU enforce by removing access to you from people who violate your boundaries.
You cannot use your boundaries to control the behavior of other people.
Boundaries are saying “hey, I won’t interact with you if you do that” not “you’re not allowed to do that.”
If someone violates your boundaries, you leave.
That’s how boundaries work.
“Boundaries make me sick :’( just let me say I think the child and forty year old should fuck :((“
Your boundaries are your boundaries. They do not control other people.
If you don’t want to associate with people who ship age gaps then block those people.
You can’t put the responsibility for maintaining your boundaries on other people.
You are the only one who can maintain your own boundaries.
When people don’t respect your boundaries you remove yourself from that person.
That’s what boundaries are.