🎀💖 answering about Ocelot :3c
We have an interesting romantic relationship because he is also technically (more than technically) my boss/superior officer. So our relationship never really loses that superior/subordinate dynamic, even in our romantic lives.
That said, when he’s not being a bit of a (teasing) bully he has a very affectionate demeanor. I’d describe him as ‘avuncular’– which means a bit like an uncle. He’s condescending, but in a sweet way, and he likes to play Mr indulgent.
He has a temper of course, but I’m good at soothing that 💖