“He was like nature, good, wild, and sometimes cruel. He had all the moods of nature: beauty, timidity, violence, and tenderness. Nature was chaos.”
— Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart
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6. What is the cutest thing you have witnessed your F/O doing?
Cute things I have witnessed Sherlock doing
- Sucking on hot teabags (from his tea)
- Pour small amounts of water on his own head
- Flop backwards on the sofa and insist he is dying due to a very small misfortune.
🌈💜💙 for Sherlock Holmes !
🌈 – Do you have any LGBT+ headcanons about your f/o and/or s/i? If so, what are they?
Sherlock is genderqueer and loves to wear dresses, not just as a ‘disguise’ but because he knows he looks gorgeous in them. He’s very picky about cuts and fabrics! he’s also a demisexual demiromantic who doesn’t generally think about those kinds of things unless he’s very close with someone…
💜 – How does your f/o and s/i flirt?
Ahhhhh! ^///^ He’s very much the type to flirt by means of flattery (or what he considers flattery), paying attention to me aggressively– like just flopping down on my lap! Also challenges. Wits, strength, anything. He considers competition flirtation– and he’s not wrong. He’s coy and tricksy, and a bit shy 😉 He’s definitely the flirtatious one between the two of us, although I have my moments. I think I’m probably the more ‘classically romantic’ of the two of us…
💙 – What trope dos your self ship fall under?
Hmmm…. there’s a little bit of an age gap there, thought not THAT much :p Only one bed, Odd Couple, reincarnation romance, pining… heheheh <3
5, 9 and 11?
Sherlock again!
5. If your F/O likened you to a flower, what kind of flower would it be? What flower would you liken your F/O to be? (This can be visually, or include flower meanings too!)
Hmmm, this one’s a little tricky…. he’d probably like me to a forget-me-not, if only because he knows that’s the kind of flower I associate myself with <3 I’d call him a rose– classically beautiful, but not without thorns 😉
9. Do you buy your F/O gifts? Do they buy gifts for you?
I LOVE buying presents for Sherlock– I’m definitely a gifts type of person. I like to make sure he’s eating, so I buy him a lot of gifts like his favorite tea, and chocolates… You actually just inspired me to buy him another present right now. Shhhh….. :3
Sherlock likes to buy me presents too, but he mainly likes to DO things, taking me out places as a present itself. Which I think is wonderful
11. Has there ever been any struggles or obstacles in your relationship together?
Oh yes… unfortunately one thing both of us struggle with is keeping information and feelings from one another “for their own good.” As time has gone by we’ve gotten better about it…
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Answering with Sherlock again because I’m in a mood 🌺
1. Have you ever had a fancy breakfast with your F/O? If not, would you? What would you have?
When Sherlock’s not refusing to eat, I think breakfast is his favorite meal of the day; for one thing it gets eating out of the way early. :p he loves pancakes and bacon!! We’ve definitely had some fancy breakfasts together, both in this lifetime and back in London. A big full english breakfast at the house of some Lord after we’d been at his house all night investigating a case…
12. Do you or your F/O have a secret talent? Is it something that can be used to impress or play pranks on the other?
I’m pretty sure Sherlock has a whole range of secret talents that he keeps on hand for when they’re useful :p which definitely includes pranking. His talent for disguise is well known, but he can also throw his voice which can be extremely unsettling. Also he’s a fantastic writer, although he’d protest…
I Think He Knows: List all of the things about your f/o that make you fall in love with them a little more each time!
Ahhh!! Ahhhh!!! there are so many things!! I’ll answer this one about Sherlock, since I’m on a roll!
- How expressive he is.
- His silly melodrama for every little thing
- His big, goofy smile
- His sly, smug smile.
- How sharp and intelligent he is
- How excited he gets about things.
- The way he always wants to share and show things
- Watching him laying on the couch in his underwear.
- The little intense face he makes when he’s concentrating on a problem.
- How warm and loving he is and how much he cares for people, despite his somewhat heartless and capricious reputation.
- The way his hair falls in his face.
- When he wants to tell me about something.
- When he dresses up in a disguise.
- The way he kisses <3
- When he plays the violin
Hi again.😃🌷, 🍇 and 💚 for Sherlock?
🌷 – How different is your f/o in your head compared to canon?
Well, the Sherlock I know of course has more nuance than canon. TGAA shows him rapidly swinging from high mania to deep depression, which yes, he absolutely does do sometimes, but he also has a more even keel middle of smug enthusiasm. Its very endearing <3
🍇 – How did you get introduced to your f/o?
In this lifetime it was recently when we were recovering from illness and finally had time to play Great Ace Attorney. I was *immediately* charmed seeing him through the game, and the more I played, the more and more it confirmed it. There was my partner <3 I’ve always had a love/hate relationship with depictions of Sherlock Holmes in the media, and now I understand why, because they’re close, but not exactly right to MY Sherlock.
In our lifetime together of course we met when we were both looing for a flatmate in london…
💚 – When is your f/o’s birthday? If it’s never been stated canonically, what’s your headcanon for it?
General consensus is January 6th!
Ahhhh thank you for letting me talk about Sherlock some!! 💖



Screaming and crying. I have been absolutely wrecked by a new F/O from a newly awakened kintype. Words cannot describe how heavily I have been beaten by this, how brought to my knees I am in love for him. (;´༎ຶД༎ຶ`)