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I know you’re probably sick of asks on the subject but I also want to say that the idea of children abusing their parents can be weaponised by abusive parents and were by mine. Like I would raise a concern or tell them to stop or do something they didn’t like and they would tell me, “you’re so abusive”, “you’re such an abusive bitch” and “what did I do to deserve this abuse”
Yeah, we have a lot of asks about this right now, and I don’t want to extend the discussion or drop them on people all at once.
But this one is really important.
Abused children hear all the time from their abusive parents that they, they children are the real abusive ones.
Abusive parents constantly victim blame their children.
I don’t really have any more to say on this subject than that.
Grant me the wisdom to take my own advice.
Whumpee: “The doctors are horrible. They’re mean to me.”
Caretaker: “Whumpee they’re saving your life.”
Whumpee “Well they could save my life a little nicer.”
TW: medical
Oooh I like this. Especially if the doctors are doing some actually sketchy shit that Caretaker doesn’t get to see because it happens in surgery. Sure they may be saving your life but they sure as hell can still fuck it up.
probertson: 🐸
I have no money to buy it or anything to play it on sadly, but I’m watching a playthrough!
I have seen some of the cute little cartoons! I liked the little Leon getting an axe to the face ^-^
Drew this while at work!
Do neurotypical children typically ignore a headache just to keep going on the computer or is that hyperfixation behaviour?
That sounds like it could be hyperfixation, mania, executive dysfunction etc.
Whatever the cause, it’s not a healthy behavior.
Please, if not for yourself then for us, get off the computer for a while, drink some water, eat something, take care of your needs.
Sending you good vibes.
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Hiya, I’m sorry in advance for using your inbox as a vent post, but I just gotta talk into the void for this one. The Genshin Impact fandom sucks, and the reason I say that is because the latest tomfoolery I’ve seen is that they harassed an English Voice Actor off Twitter because she mentioned in passing that she enjoyed two characters together, one character being headcanoned and assumed to be a minor and the other an adult, thus “bad, illegal ship!” And so you get both sides of the coin, proship and antis, theorizing and commenting on the ages of these characters to either defend or go against the ship in question. And I am just standing here, baffled. Because why the fuck are ya’ll (general) arguing over this?? Especially people on the proship side? Like it doesn’t matter?? They don’t have Canon ages, and they don’t look like a child or an adult because they don’t look human (at least to me they don’t). They aren’t going to have rights, ever. They aren’t going to praise anybody for getting their ages right. Like, it doesn’t make sense to me. Why argue to antis “Uh, actually it’s fine ‘cause they’re this age and–!” Like, don’t argue that, just say it’s not real, it doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things, life isn’t gonna end because of contradictory headcanons. They are 3d models in a fantasy gacha game, you’d think they would talk more about the inevitable gambling of the game but no. This is apparently what matters. Once again I’m sorry for this. I’m just – extremely tired of people placing ages on characters that don’t have one and using it for their own agenda.
I am so sorry you have to deal with that in your fandom, anon. Thank you for sharing your feelings and experiences.